Saying lesbians figuring out they’re bisexual is showing men that they can turn lesbians is ridiculous, because ultimately, it’s not about you. Someone’s own exploration of their own sexuality has nothing to do with you. It’s not your business to discourse about someone’s sexuality. You need to recognize that you’re just projecting your insecurities onto other people and you’re hurting people over something that ultimately isn’t about them.
“To claim one group of downtrodden people is oppressing another by their self-identification is to swing your guns away from those who really do oppress us, and to aim them at those who are already under siege”