gaygothur:

“Alcohol does not a change a person’s fundamental value system. People’s personalities when intoxicated, even though somewhat altered, still bear some relationship to who they are when sober. When you are drunk you may behave in ways that are silly or embarrassing; you might be overly familiar or tactlessly honest, or perhaps careless or forgetful. But do you knock over little old ladies for a laugh? Probably not. Do you sexually assault the clerk at the convenience store? Unlikely. People’s conduct while intoxicated continues to be governed by their core foundation of beliefs and attitudes, even though there is some loosening of the structure. Alcohol encourages people to let loose what they have simmering below the surface.”

— Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

lordhellebore:

the-quasar-hero:

obabedaddy:

the-palemoon-presence:

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the-palemoon-presence:

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s1lv3rkn1ght6:

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karoliciousbanberry:

the-quasar-hero:

a-dash-of-salt:

the-quasar-hero:

I just had a horrible thought; hot wine.

It’s pretty damn good.

It’s literally tradition in germany ever Christmas

You aware of this @s1lv3rkn1ght6 ?

Yeah, they glühwien all over the place…I think that’s how it’s spelled but yeah.

Just another reason to never go to Europe

In Denmark we call it Gløgg and we put nuts in it.

Did you just fucking say “nuts”? In the wine? In the hot wine? Nuts in a drink, that drink being wine, wine that is heated. That’s what you’re saying?

Yeah’ we’re nutting up that wine 🙂

In sweden we’re rasin’ the bar by having rasins in it. Often severed with a pasty that also have rasins

Y’all put raisins, which dried out grapes, in (heated) wine which is squished old grape juice?

Wine was first recorded as spiced and heated in Rome during the 2nd century.