myautisticpov:

neurodiversitysci:

elevine26:

“On the spectrum”

Why do people use this phrase to describe autistics? Is it because they are trying to avoid the word “autism” like it is a slur?

The term “on the spectrum” itself is harmful to the connotation of autistic individuals. Personally, I do not have anything against the word “spectrum” itself, but its connotation. Many associate the word “spectrum” as something linear, when in reality, the word simply implies that there is a variety. Because many associate a “spectrum” with being linear, they begin to measure autism by the quantity of one trait only.

Typically, misled individuals will measure autistics by how verbal they are. And since verbility itself is a linear spectrum, people begin labeling nonverbal autistics as “low functioning” or “on the higher end of the spectrum” and vise versa. This makes people forget that there is so much more to autism than verbility, and that is harmful to autistics.

In summary, the term itself isn’t harmful, but the connotation of it is.

I get what you’re saying.

Personally, I use “on the spectrum” to avoid the issue of whether to say “autistic” or “person with autism” if I don’t know the person’s preference. Mainly, I use it with non-autistic people who expect “person first language” when I don’t feel like explaining why I default to “autistic person.” 

In many of these cases, I’m talking to people who already understand that autism is more like a color wheel than a linear spectrum. And if they don’t understand that, I find that well worth taking the time and energy to explain.

(I’m in a clinical program talking to people who’ve all had at least some experience interacting with autistic people, but have gotten some counter-productive training that everyone prefers person-first language. So that’s why my audience has this weird distribution of knowledge).

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Tangent: I think it’s also worth teaching people that language isn’t a linear spectrum, either! 😉 For example, you can divide language into:

  • Receptive (ability to understand) vs. expressive (ability to say/write/sign/etc.)
  • Form (accurate grammar and sentence structure) vs. content (meaning) vs. usage (understanding your audience and speaking in the correct way given the social situation).

And then there’s the fact that a person’s ability to, for example, say understandable sentences depends on their cognitive load. (How much are they trying to think about or pay attention to at once?)  I’ve seen people who can tell a well-structured story clearly and grammatically when they’re re-telling a familiar story or using a set of pictures as a cue. But when they have to hold on to the story in their heads while translating it into language, what comes out of their mouths is a mess. I see that even more with writing. So, “more verbal” vs. “less verbal” isn’t really a thing.

Yeah, it also makes it clear that you’re talking about everyone under the autism umbrella. This was more important before Asperger’s was phased out as a diagnosis, but that has only happened in the past few years, and not everyone is up to date on the changing terminology (which is not helped by, like, SBC randomly being like “actually I think Autism Spectrum Condition sounds less stigmatising” and shit like that). Saying “on the spectrum” seems to have become the way for academics (mostly where I’ve seen this use) to make it clear that they’re referring to everyone. Especially if not all of your research participants actually use the term “autistic” to self-identify. I use it anyway with a terminology note, but I can see why allistic academics might find “on the spectrum” (or “on the AS”, which I love because it sound like bad 90s slang) to be a safer term.

Also, just a quick point: the Asperger dx was only phased out under the US-based DSM-5, not ICD-10 as used in a lot of the rest of the world. It’s still very much in common use where I am (page dated Sept. 2018), making the umbrella terminology more useful.

Apparently released earlier this year:

The latest draft of the manual, dubbed ICD-11, collapses autism, Asperger syndrome and pervasive developmental disorder-not otherwise specified (PDD-NOS) into a single diagnosis of ‘autism spectrum disorder.’

Those changes will no doubt take a while to filter down. I wouldn’t necessarily expect that type of umbrella usage to decrease anyway, especially with it built into the official labels.

isabelknight:

naamahdarling:

nekoswords:

naamahdarling:

aliciawentzshadows:

naamahdarling:

I got some shitty news RE: my disability payments today, just in time for my birthday tomorrow.

If y’all could send some cool/fun/silly asks or something, that’d be swell. I’m feeling mighty worthless right now.

Have my fat cat Loki. He always makes me smile

RUB THAT TUMMY FOR ME

unless it is a trap, in which case please to kiss the head

Here is a picture of my own Loki.  He does like tummy rubs.

RUB RUB RUB THAT BOY
GENTLY SQUEEZE HIS BEANS
HAIRILY HAIRILY HAIRILY HAIRILY
LIFE WITH CATS IS KEEN

Harley is prepared to slap either your negative feelings or the bureacracy until you feel better!

That’s what Feist thinks of bureaucracy. Tummy rubs, OTOH…

President Signs Executive Order Mandating That Poor People Work or Lose ‘Welfare’

note-a-bear:

spooniestrong:

lemmy:

progenyofworms:

thefingerfuckingfemalefury:

goluxexmachina:

dr-archeville:

Without much fanfare (totally apropos, given what’s been happening in the world of the White House in the last 72 hours),
President Donald Trump signed an executive order Tuesday that will
force recipients of Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program benefits,
Medicaid and low-income housing subsidies to find work or lose their
assistance.

Trump quietly signed the long-anticipated order, oddly named
“Reducing Poverty in America by Promoting Opportunity and Economic
Mobility.” Given that many government agencies, including the Department
of Health and Human Services, have already begun issuing waivers to
Republican governors who want to impose stricter work requirements on
Medicaid recipients to cut costs, it will not make much of an impact, according to the New York Times.

The
fact remains that most able-bodied adults who receive federal aid in
the form of subsidized health care or housing already work—but are still
unable to make ends meet; others receive exemptions for legitimate
reasons.

From the Times:

The order gave
all cabinet departments 90 days to produce plans that impose work
requirements on able-bodied aid recipients and block ineligible
immigrants from receiving aid, while drafting “a list of recommended
regulatory and policy changes” to push recipients off the rolls and into
jobs.

The aim, Trump aides said … is to prod federal
and state officials to take a tougher stance with aid recipients —
millions of whom currently receive exemptions from existing work
requirements because they are in training programs, provide care for
relatives or volunteer their labor.

The Agriculture Department is
already pressuring states to impose work requirements in the
Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, the program formerly known as
food stamps. Earlier this year, the Department of Health and Human
Services granted a waiver to Arkansas
so it could require Medicaid recipients to get jobs, participate in job
training or engage in job searches at least 80 hours a month.

According
to the Kaiser Foundation, most able-bodied adults who do not already
have jobs face obstacles in working, including mental problems, criminal
records and certain family situations.

Yet the narrative from the Trump administration says differently.

“Our
country suffers from nearly record high welfare enrollments,” said
Andrew Bremberg, the president’s domestic policy chief, according to the
Times, which notes that Temporary Assistance for Needy Families
payments to poor people are approaching record lows.

Trump also
reportedly wants to change the word “welfare” to include not only cash
payments  but also food and medical benefits (SNAP and Medicaid).

Or
he just doesn’t give AF. And I quote: “Mr. Trump, several aides said,
is unconcerned—or perhaps even unaware—of the distinction between cash
assistance and other safety-net programs … he calls them all welfare.”

And we know what connotations go along with that.

FFFUUUCCCKKK

Goddammit.

To all the people this bullshit is going to harm and make life even more awful/difficult for: remember that the Republicans are the ones responsible for this shit during the midterm elections this year

AND VOTE THESE HATEFUL SACKS OF SHIT OUT

This is how they kill poor people, slowly and legally

My dad will lose both his home and food stamps from this.

This is murder.

By any other name.

MURDER.

This was done in the UK a few years ago. Within months hundreds were facing an abrupt cessation of benefits. Hundreds more were looking at the same, if somewhat delayed–talking shrunk but not cut benefits, diminished access to services, disability insensitive labor requirements….

Almost all of it landed first, and potentially most harshly, on disabled people. While this will undoubtedly harm people who aren’t disabled, but are otherwise limited in work opportunities (single parents, caretakers, employment deserts, etc), make no mistake that it will be disabled people bearing the brunt of this.

President Signs Executive Order Mandating That Poor People Work or Lose ‘Welfare’

Watch out people, tumblr is fucking with dashboards again

vallisagarwaen:

   Last year we introduced Safe Mode, which filters sensitive content in your dashboard and search results so you have control over what you see and what you don’t. And now that it’s been out for a while, we want to make sure everyone has the chance to try it out.                    

   Over the next couple weeks, you might see some things in your dashboard getting filtered. If you like it that way, that’s great. If you don’t, no problem. You can go back by turning off Safe Mode [there’s a link here in the original mail] any time.

There is no information, NOWHERE, what will be filtered.

There is no information HOW we should even notice things getting filtered.

Also, NOT EVERY TUMBLR USER GETS THIS MAIL. SHARE IT FOR THOSE WHO DON’T.

Another list of some words snagged into English just from Virginia/Carolina Algonquian languages is at the bottom of the page here. (Ran across that looking for a reference link.)

I still find the usage difference a little jarring, with horns hooting instead of honking in British English.

Just realizing I have no idea what geese did before English speakers encountered cohonk elsewhere. (So yeah, geese are basically “honkers” in Powhatan that I know of.)

naamahdarling:

blome3kissesbitch:

blome3kissesbitch:

squeakykins:

rabbitinheadlights:

I feel like the reason certain dog-lovers insist cats are evil is because they read their body language as if they were dogs. So here’s a very basic guide to common “mean” things cats do that actually aren’t mean at all if you know what they’re thinking.

Rolling and exposing belly- attacks you when touched
Does not mean: Give belly rubs! – haha I tricked you! 
Actually means: I’m playful! If you reach for my belly I’ll grab your arm and bite it because I think we’re playfighting! 

Lazily exposing belly – still attacks when touched
Does not mean: tricked you again!
Actually means: I’m showing you my belly because I trust you. Please don’t break that trust by invading my personal space. I might accept a belly rub if I’m not ticklish and I know you well.

Snapping at you while being pet
Does not mean: I suddenly decided I dislike you!
Actually means: You’re petting me in a way that gives me too much restless energy. Please focus on petting my head and shoulders instead of stroking the full length of my back next time.

Is in the same room but makes no attempt to interact
Does not mean:  I’m ignoring you
Actually means: We’re hanging out! I’m being respectful by giving you space while still enjoying your company.

Slapping/scratching your hand when you try to pet them
Does not mean: I hate you!
Actually means: You’ve failed to establish that we’re not playing, or the way you’re approaching me scares me. Be calmer, speak more gently, make eye-contact and blink slowly at me before you try again.

I love this post omg, thank you so much. As a lifelong cat person, dogs perplex me because they’re so completely different behaviourally.

I love dogs too but, I’ve been trying to tell people, you canNOT treat cats like you treat dogs. They arent the same animals and have very different personalities

P.s.: people often pet cats way too hard. Dogs like a firm pet or a pat on the belly, cats dont have the same bone structure and are more flexible than dogs so what you’re doing probably hurts them

Sitting and staring
Does not mean: I am challenging you/plotting your demise/just generally evil and creepy.
Actually means: I am a desert-adapted species, so my natural tears are very thick and keep my eyes moist for a nice long time. I do find people interesting and enjoy watching them.  I just don’t need to blink very often!

Staring and blinking slowly
Does not mean: I’m smug and think I am smarter than you.
Actually means: I like you! But I don’t need to get up in your face to show it.  I can just sit over here and blow kisses at you to show you I am glad you are around!

It’s very frustrating for me when people expect cats to act like dogs, or act like they’re deceitful.  They aren’t!  They just AREN’T DOGS.

Tonight’s delight: Some chicken yakisoba, thrown together with odds and ends of veggies and some frozen precooked chicken bits.

(Also GF spaghetti, because that was the best thing I had. Not classic, but it’s not a bad choice. One of those easy dishes great for using whatever you’ve got, anyway.)

I forgot to put any aonori on top before starting to chow down on that bowl, so just imagine some dry parsley looking stuff on top 😉 Nice touch, but delicious without.

That ended up being more vegetable prep than I had planned for. (Bagged cole slaw mix is handy if you can get it. Not really a thing here.) But, there should be plenty of veggies left for some other dish for both of us to eat tomorrow!

As bad as I always am at judging amounts, I only used half the vegetables I cut up for the noodles. And that made two pretty big bowls worth, which was about twice as much as planned 🙄 With a pretty high proportion of veggies–harder to see there with it heavy on the cabbage.

Not about to complain, though, because yummy noodles. The second bowl may not be hot out of the pan, but hey.

moon-boob:

fecundism:

prissygrrrl:

fecundism:

fecundism:

ive been reading a book that basically explains how so-called “brain differences” between the genders is the result of gendered socialization and not the cause of it. i honestly expected the book to be very cis-centric but its actually the opposite, the author stresses that testimony from trans ppl is actually indispensable because we’ve, in a sense, “lived both experiences”

more cis feminists should have this mindset

one of the first examples that she uses to introduce her point about how perception by others can shape a person’s performance actually uses a trans woman. it explains that as a certain trans woman became to be seen as a woman more and more frequently, the ppl arond her eventually started viewing her as being ill equipped for tasks that they did not bother her about pre-transition. eventually she even found herself underperforming in these tasks herself.

whats the name of the book

Delusions of Gender by Cordelia Fine

Here’s a pdf, babes ❤