If you’ve been following me for a while, you more than likely know what’s going on, but for those who don’t know: I’ve been in an extremely toxic, abusive relationship for the past 6 ½ years with my son’s father. We have a 3 year old together. While I did leave him last year, I (stupidly) came back in March under the promises of “things would change” etc etc. He has been emotionally, verbally, physically, sexually, and financially abusive. I am cooperating with the state in applying for all kinds of state assistance I am eligible for. I have an apartment and have our most basic needs covered. I need help with covering rent at the end of the month as I can’t do it by myself (my rent is $936), I have no consistent means of transportation (there is no bus/public transit in the city I live in) and I really realllyyy don’t want to have to allow my abuser into my home just to help cover these bills. I can manage on my own, but I need help getting on my feet and establishing my independence in the time being.
Any resources, encouraging words (I have virtually no support system), or other help is so much appreciated.
My PayPal is c.newago@yahoo.com, or PayPal.me/bizaanideewin
Please please don’t send anon hate or criticism, I cannot stress how hard I am struggling with my own guilt and self-blaming right now
Miigwech
I’m having a sale on my website, if donating isn’t your jam.
Bringing this back, with an update: I wasn’t able to survive on my own so I had to let him in. Lo and behold the abuse continues. Today he punched a hole in the bedroom door. My dad is going to cosign for a new apartment for me back in my hometown, as long as I cover the costs he is going to help me move. I’ve already got a rental application submitted. I’m done I’m leaving I’m OUT. I have tangible proof and I can break the lease without repercussions through the domestic violence clause in the lease.
I just need help with the intial moving costs and initial housing costs- the apartment I applied for is $645 a month, security deposit same amount. First months rent and security deposit due at lease signing. Moving costs are around $400 (it’s a 300 mile move so it gets expensive fast)
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE REBLOG
I’m almost 15% of the way there!! Please boost!
UPDATE: before my best friend came to get me to visit her, he and I got into a huge fight. He was screaming at me at the top of his lungs calling me a selfish bitch and a slut. He then proceeded to tell me Makoons won’t have any parents anymore if I call the cops.
Please boost!! I want to leave BEFORE this escalates!!!!
UPDATE (!!!!): i had an amazing help, being able to pay the light and internet bills, and buy one box of the meds for my mom. now, i have R$ 8,29. i need to pay my rent next 16th august and all i have is R$ 8,29. plus that the med i bought for my mom today is weekly, so, is crazy. please, donate to my paypal if you can help me. my rent costs R$700,00.
UPDATE 2 (!!!!):
Had help of exactly R$278,01 (85,66€ – PayPal tax 6,69€), which means that I still need R$422,00. Thank you sweetheart, for the donation. 💝 need to buy that weekly med for my mom, in THIS LINK you can check the price
taisxabranches@gmail.com – “payment for products” on paypal. please, if you can spare anything will matter. thanks for all the help ‘til here. ❤
IMPORTANT (!!!): HEREandHERE you can check prescriptions, reports and etc. all th proof that we need help. thankk you all too much. ❤
EDITING(!!!): Plus now, my dear friend who helps me every month with my rent will not be able to help me for the next two months (august/september). So, plus everything discribed above, I need R$1400,00 for the next two months. Is a lot for my nerves. I don’t know how I am not in a hospital bed drooling looking at the walls. Please, someone help us. (!!!!!!!!!!!)
guys please, my mom only have med ‘til tomorrow. I need help, please. Anything will matter ’-’ please.
My mom is still without her med and i didn’t had any donation yet. If you can help, please, donate to my PayPal. Thank you all for everything. ❤️
Kusto has been my puppy since he was 5 weeks old. His mom was attacking the litter, so we brought him home, hand-weaned him, and he’s been my sweet baby since the day that he waddled over to me and flopped on his back when I went to meet the litter.
The day I came back from the hospital after getting my spine surgery, he saw me out the window and refused to be tricked into going to the backyard – he had to see me as soon as possible. And he tended me through my recovery, sleeping on the hospital bed we had in our living room.
About 2 weeks ago, he started losing weight rapidly. We took him to the vet, and got an answer we were dreading:
Leukemia.
At this point we know that it’s leukemia and one of two forms of acute leukemia. We have six to nine months at the outside with him.
The only way to determine a treatment plan is with more testing. Then we will know what our plan is.
To be clear: this is a hospice plan. We aren’t going to cure him, and we know that. Our goal is to find the best treatment plan that will give him the best quality of life for the longest time. We are preparing to say goodbye, and we want to do it as gently as possible and let the time he has left with us be as good as it can be. Right now, he’s curled up next to me on the bed with his head against my leg, and that’s really all he wants with the rest of his life.
He’s taken good care of me for 14 years and now I need to take care of him, but with everything the last year has thrown at us, I just don’t have the money. We just lost Lex seven months ago, we were just living in a hotel eight months ago. What the fuck, 2017.
The goal is currently set only at the cost of the tests to determine our plan, and an oncology consult. It will go up once a plan is in place, and we know how we will best be able to give him a good life and an easy passing.
If you can help, thank you. If you can help by sharing, thank you. I’m totally wrecked by this news. If I don’t answer when people check in on me, it’s because I’m a flat mess.
I’m so sorry vaspy 😦 sending love your way, and boosting 💖
Her name is Kali, she’s about 5 years old, and on August 4th, I came home to find her by the back steps, unable to stand up without help. The vet said he couldn’t feel any broken bones, she has no signs of nerve damage, and now that she’s on pain meds she’s able to support her own weight for short periods and is using the litterbox… but she’s definitely got a sacroiliac subluxation, meaning one side of her pelvis is misaligned. It’ll probably heal on its own without surgery, but we don’t know for sure. We couldn’t afford x-rays, so the diagnosis came from a manual exam.
I hate to ask for help again, because it seems like that’s all I’ve done this past year – but if it’s my pride or my cats’ health, it’s a pretty easy choice.
Here’s what I need help with:
– paying back the money I borrowed from my sister-in-law for the exam and medications
– paying any additional vet fees (x-rays, more pain meds, surgery if it comes to that)
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