Times are tough, I sing a song for my supper.

vaspider:

vaspider:

So, most of you know that @dadhoc  unexpectedly lost his job right after Lex died last year – and in fact exactly because Lex died. They fired him because he took a day off from work when he’d been up all night at the emergency vet with his dog, finally having to make the decision to put him down.

@dadhoc’s gotten work again, but between being out of work, his new job being ethically better but currently paying him literally less than half what his old job did, and my disability limiting my work hours, plus the fact that what was supposed to be ‘pay your deductible and we’ll fix your house’ turned into ‘lol jk you’re 10K in debt now’ – things are getting – well.

Really tough. We’re not yet scarily falling behind, but things are becoming a little nerve-wracking. My last paycheck, after I paid for our health care, was $30. That’s not a typo. It’s not typical, but it’s not a typo.

Between my various social media sites, I put in enough time answering questions, acting as support, and writing up resources for it to be a second job for me. I do it because I love it, and because I love our community, but it’d also be awesome if my labor could turn into cash money. 

If you appreciate what I do, please consider buying me a coffee, or if you don’t like Ko-fi, sending something my way on PayPal. My Patreon will be going live tomorrow, at which time you will also have the option of paying me money for stories about socialist space lesbians and separately a Jewish scholar in a fantasy world based on Mongolia and also about a demisexual middle-aged wizard, her partner, and their trans apprentice. I just have to decide which one I want to plow through first. 

If every one of my followers could toss a dollar in the kitty, I’d have enough money to be sure we’d be tided over to when things should pick up for @dadhoc, and maybe even make some of the desperately-needed safety-related repairs to our house, which have been put off and put off. 

Even better, if you’d like to hire me to write something for you, edit, proofread, speak or sensitivity read for you? I am for hire. I also have an Etsy shop, and if you don’t see something you like in my current stock, hit me up for something custom. Any of my pride kippot can be modified into beanies if you want a Pride item but are not Jewish. 

Thanks – and please  boost this either way. ❤ 

So I hate to bring this up to the fore again, but here we are.

We are in scary territory right now. @dadhoc got a different job, finally, and we might be okay if we can make it to September, but the thing is, we gotta make it to September. 

I haven’t talked about this a lot, but my job found an excuse to get rid of me, in a way that may or may not be legal because it may be a disability law violation but I don’t have the money to fight and they know that, and are now contesting my unemployment. If they rule against me, I’ll have to repay everything I’ve been paid since May 26th. (Yeah, they fired me right before my birthday.) Between that and the fact that dadhoc isn’t ramped up at his new job and is making just over minimum wage until he does? We’ve eaten through most of our savings paying bills and the mortgage for the last couple months.

(We do, for the moment, have medical assistance, so that much is covered. For now. Hooray Medicaid.)

My in-laws helped me to get a new sewing machine so that I can provide more awesome stuff at my Etsy shop, and I’ve branched out from Judaica to Pride items. 

So if you like what I do? Consider hiring me, consider buying something from my Etsy shop (I do custom work!), consider buying me a coffee or becoming a Patron or tossing some money in my PayPal tip jar

Please, and thank you. I just gotta make it to September, and then hopefully dadhoc’s new job will pick up. 

Please share!

omg-kent-mashkov:

Hi everyone,

I hate to make a post like this but I really don’t know what else to do. My roommate noticed a lump on my dog Oakley’s foot a couple weeks ago and she’s had to go to the vet three times since then. We found out that the lump is a tumor that needs to be surgically removed. The cost of the surgery alone is almost $600, that’s not including the antibiotics and ointment we’ve already tried which brings it up to almost $1,000 in vet bills this month alone. 

Most of you probably don’t know this, but I was under severe stress and started cutting just over two years ago now.

I also have been struggling with an as of yet undiagnosed ailment that causes me to randomly have severe debilitating pain to the point of passing out. I got Oakley partially because I wanted to be responsible for someone else so that I would have a reason to keep trying to get healthy.  I’m in a much better place now mentally, which is definitely in part because of my puppy. She’s a certified therapy dog that loves literally everything and everyone. I could brag about her all day, but I’ll just put in some adorable pictures of her below.

Any help you could give, whether donations or just signal boosting would be really really appreciated! The link to our gofundme is here. Thank you all so much ❤

help buy grace a wheelchair attachment to get her to university

nihilisticspace:

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hi everyone!! my name is grainne but i go by grace! i’m from scotland in the uk and i have cerebral palsy, this year i’ve been offered a place at university!! but my university is built on a lot of hills and i would struggle to get to classes on my own. i really really value my independence so i am looking to buy an electric wheelchair attachment to help me get around – a SMARTDriveMX2!! it’s a wheel that attaches to the back of your wheelchair to give you more power going up hills.

i can’t stress how much this would improve my life, not only for university, but just in general as getting around on my own can be really difficult. if i was to get this it would be like a weight off my shoulders, i could go to university, i could go travelling, go shopping ect just normal things without having to worry about being tired or sore!! the freedom that abled bodied people get doesn’t seem so far away!

the only problem is that the SMARTDriveMX2 is £5750 and i start university in september!! i really hate to ask anyone for money but there’s no way i can afford this on my own – so if you can please please donate!!

my justgiving (my mum made this page so it’s in her name)

if you aren’t able to donate i totally understand – but please share this page and message far and wide!! thank you so so much!! xx

baapi-makwa:

baapi-makwa:

Boozhoo (hello), my name is Ken, I am a disabled Ojibwe artist from northern Wisconsin. I am writing this post because I am having a hard time making ends meet and any donations I could possibly receive at this time would be greatly appreciated. Recent events have left my bank account depleted and my cupboards bare, I have some food but it will not last and I still do not know how I will cover all the utility bills.

I do have PayPal, that is really the best way to donate at this time, the email I use for that is: baapimakwa@gmail.com, or you can click here.

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baapi-makwa:

baapi-makwa:

Boozhoo (hello), my name is Ken, I am a disabled Ojibwe artist from northern Wisconsin. I am writing this post because I am having a hard time making ends meet and any donations I could possibly receive at this time would be greatly appreciated. Recent events have left my bank account depleted and my cupboards bare, I have some food but it will not last and I still do not know how I will cover all the utility bills.

I do have PayPal, that is really the best way to donate at this time, the email I use for that is: baapimakwa@gmail.com, or you can click here.

Updated:

Please share!

omg-kent-mashkov:

Hi everyone,

I hate to make a post like this but I really don’t know what else to do. My roommate noticed a lump on my dog Oakley’s foot a couple weeks ago and she’s had to go to the vet three times since then. We found out that the lump is a tumor that needs to be surgically removed. The cost of the surgery alone is almost $600, that’s not including the antibiotics and ointment we’ve already tried which brings it up to almost $1,000 in vet bills this month alone. 

Most of you probably don’t know this, but I was under severe stress and started cutting just over two years ago now.

I also have been struggling with an as of yet undiagnosed ailment that causes me to randomly have severe debilitating pain to the point of passing out. I got Oakley partially because I wanted to be responsible for someone else so that I would have a reason to keep trying to get healthy.  I’m in a much better place now mentally, which is definitely in part because of my puppy. She’s a certified therapy dog that loves literally everything and everyone. I could brag about her all day, but I’ll just put in some adorable pictures of her below.

Any help you could give, whether donations or just signal boosting would be really really appreciated! The link to our gofundme is here. Thank you all so much ❤

Click here to support Help Rose and their kids keep the lights on!

goldenheartedrose:

Heyyyyyy so if you can help me and my kids out, I’d be really appreciative?

I’m kind of just needing a little extra help so I can keep the lights and such on.  I started work today but I’m not going to receive an actual paycheck beyond just orientation until August 4th, I believe?  So until then, I’m just trying to get by.

I appreciate it! 

Click here to support Help Rose and their kids keep the lights on!