I am here for black natives

russianspacegeckosexparty:

I am here for black natives who “don’t feel they count” as native because they’re black 

I am here for black natives who constantly deal with antiblackness from nonblack natives 

I am here for black natives who feel they gotta jump through hoops just to “prove” their authenticity to nonblack natives 

I am here for black natives who grew up on reservations or in urban settings, or both 

I am here for black natives who feel disconnected but wanna rediscover their heritage 

I am here for black natives who descend from black slaves owned by nonblack natives who feel conflicted about that part of their heritage 

I am here for dark skinned black natives who face even more opposition for not fitting the “traditional ~native~ look” and endure colorism in yet another community

I am here for black natives who still get denied their heritage no matter how much proof they bring forth 

I am here for black natives ✊✊✊

imgetting2old4diss:

pastel-kawaii-shitpunk-pokefurry:

star-anise:

robotbisexual:

memestealingasexual:

hottestaceinthisplace:

If you don’t believe being asexual has any negative affect on people I was told by a psychiatrist that none of my relationships count because we didn’t have sex, and
I can’t say I’m gay since I don’t want to have sex with girls.

and I was taken off my antidepressants because they may be lowering the libido I never had in the first place (plus various other reasons, but still immediately, cold turkey, which should NEVER happen unless they’re switching you to something else)

But aphobia doesn’t exist and asexuals are privileged, right?

Sorry to add to this but I wanted to say since I’ve had bad experiences with mental health professionals and biphobia, I usually get asked “but are you sure you are sexually attracted to both sexes, are you sure it’s not just an emotional attraction?!” Like my dude don’t you think I can tell the difference between wanting to date someone and wanting to be friends? Also, due to be gray ace 90% of the time I am not even attracted to anyone but like sure, make me feel guilty that I can’t “prove” my bisexuality.

Sorry too but to add on, being aro isn’t much different. I told my therapist and she was immediately concerned that my meds were repressing “all my emotions” and wanted to take me off them. My insurance ran out and I went off them bc of no money before that happened. She also suggested dating someone anyway to “fix” the “issue” and expressed concern that my emotions (romantic feelings) weren’t present because “I’m suspicious and untrusting of everyone and don’t want to try hard enough.”

Having your orientation medicalized and invalidated is bad enough, but its fucking dangerous to have your meds taken away because you’re not performing relationships the way some doctor thinks you’re required to.

Aaaand this is why we need the bi/pan/ace/aro alliance.

this is why we need to recognize more queer experiences and identities than gay and lesbian, through increased awareness, information and representation.

Why cant people understand SEX ISNT EVERY THING. If you dont feel sexual attraction to people you arnt ill you are just being you .

Maybe my favorite incident was when this one older guy barged straight into my cane, actually fell ass over teakettle hard onto pavement (good enough)–then got up in my face cussing about my deliberately tripping him.

I guess that’s one way to try to save face, but at least he made himself look bad enough that a couple of other people who watched it stopped to tell him off.

Well, earlier I said “girl”, because that’s when I had the misfortune of knowing her. But, by now? That awful roommate of mine could well be the mother of some of the current batch. Unless she’s changed more than I would necessarily expect, it seems pretty likely soon if not already.

kelpforestdweller:

littlecuddler:

mycharliequinn:

going to the doctor when you’re chronically ill is weird.

It’s like imagine everything in your house is on fire, and you’re standing there and the fire department come in like, describe the fire to me and maybe we can find what caused it and put it out.

and you can’t just say everything so you’re like… well the fire in the curtain is the biggest
but the fire in the photo albums might be doing the most damage
also the fire in the couch is really inconvenient

occasionally the firemen are like, well your tv is on fire so it might be electronic-fireitus but that would cause other things like fire in the dvd player

and you’re like, oh yes. that’s been on fire for years. I forgot to mention it because it’s always been a relatively small fire. It’s right next to the bookshelf which has much more fire.

and then the firemen are like, oh. i wouldn’t worry about that. book shelf fire just happens sometimes.

😂😂 OMG yes.

“test results say there’s no fire. you’re fine,” they tell you as you suffocate on smoke

Amazon’s New Headquarters Should Be in Hell

decadent-trans-girl:

Yesterday, Amazon announced that it is searching for a new city to build a second, massive, $5 billion headquarters. Exciting? No. Disgusting. This is what the extortion of public resources looks like.

The point I want to make here is not original or revolutionary or even deeply insightful. It is obvious. But it is very easy for it to get lost in the hype of this ENORMOUS MULTIBILLION-DOLLAR HEADQUARTERS SEARCH WITH 50,000 JOBS!!! REVITALIZE YOUR FAILING CITY! JOIN THE MODERN AGE! GET YOUR COW TOWN A PIECE OF THE AMAZON ACTION! ACT NOW AND WIN THE AMAZON SWEEPSTAKES OR GET LEFT BEHIND LIKE THE DYING POSTINDUSTRIAL WASTELAND THAT YOU REALLY ARE!

Amazon is one of America’s largest and most succesful corporations. It is worth nearly $500 billion. Its stock is booming. Its CEO is one of the world’s richest men. It has the wherewithal, in other words, to do whatever it wants. If Amazon wanted to purchase five square blocks of midtown Manhattan tomorrow and build skyscrapers on it, it could, just by writing a check. More to the point, if Amazon wanted to help revitalize an American city by investing $5 billion in it to build a new headquarters there, bringing 50,000 new jobs to town, it could. Just by writing a check.

Instead, Amazon is holding a multinational audition, asking for cities to submit proposals to win the exciting opportunity to host tens of thousands of tech nerds. Amazon wants to know that cities have an educated work force and good transportation networks, sure, but they don’t need the cities themselves to tell them that. What they are asking cities to submit are economic incentives. They are asking for tax breaks. They are in essence conducting a giant beauty pageant in which desperate municipal governments attempt to offer them the most lucrative possible package of public resources. This is not unlike a rich man standing up in the midst of a crowd of beggars and yelling, “Who will massage my feet for the lowest price?”

Not to speak too technically, but: this is bad. This is a method that completely forsakes all of the benefits of public cooperation and planning in favor of chaos and desperation. This is crabs in a pot. These corporate attempts to play state and local governments against one another at taxpayer expense should be made illegal. Instead, they are treated as fun competitions to be “won,” exhibitions of civic pride. They’re not. They are exhibitions of the grotesque power imbalance between private and public capital in America. Elected officials routinely brag over winning these degrading competitions for corporate locations without ever admitting the enormous public costs. Whichever city “wins” Amazon’s headquarters will do so by ceding to the enormously powerful company money that should, by normal laws, be going into the public till, to build schools and roads and pay firefighters and do things that support everyone. Instead that money will support Amazon and its shareholders. This is not a desirable system. A desirable system would be to outlaw these types of tax incentives, which would result in companies… still locating in cities and states, but without robbing the public in order to do so. A desirable system would be one in which governments could insist that companies offer incentives to the public in order to be accommodated—incentives like, for example, promising not to impede their workers’ right to form unions, or to impose soul-crushing and inhuman working conditions on the fine citizens of said municipality who will make up their work force.

So when you see your civic leaders lining up to grovel at Amazon’s feet and offer countless millions in incentives to host their headquarters, keep in mind what is actually happening here. An extremely wealthy and powerful private corporation is extorting money from the public by dividing and conquering. This has been a successful strategy for many tyrants over the years. But we don’t need to act like they’re doing any of us a favor.

Amazon’s New Headquarters Should Be in Hell