pointless-letters:

‪……and putting aside the fact that (I’m willing to bet) your daughter wouldn’t give a single shit about her auntie being gay, what’s the game plan here? How do you explain where the child came from *after* she has it? ‬

‪You know what, never mind. GROW THE FUCK UP.‬

fierceawakening:

regurgitation-imminent:

myprettynightmare:

Anyone else terrified that they are toxic and manipulative and just can’t see it? Or is that just me?

A lot of people who’ve been abused think this. It’s very common for abusers to try to convince their victims that they, in some small part, deserve the abuse.

And a common way of doing that is to frame the defensive tactics of the victim as bad, manipulative things.

All the time, tbh. I have absolutely no idea what acceptable anger is and I often get told that no one even knew I was mad when I worried I was going too far.