vaspider:
I always find it amazing how you have the choice to either live out loud – that is, to live as someone who is unapologetically disabled, and talks about it like it’s as normal as every part of your life – or to live without ever speaking about your disabilities publicly. And if you do one, then you’re ‘attention-seeking,’ as if activism works by sitting down quietly, and if you do the other…
… well, that’s what ableists love, isn’t it? When we sit quietly, never talking about how ableism affects us, and how it makes our lives difficult? That would be so simple, wouldn’t it? So easy. Then they don’t have to deal with it.
I’ll take being an obnoxious bitch who lives loudly and proudly as a disabled punk over rolling over and showing belly to ableists who’d like me to fade in the corner and never bother them to change a thing about how society’s ingrained ableism fucks over the largest minority in the US.
And if you’re wondering: the same shit goes for being queer, for being non-binary, for all of it. I’m tired of being told that existing as I am is ‘shoving it in people’s faces.’ If you have a problem being reminded to not be an ableist or not misgender a trans person, well, uh, that’s not something wrong with me, is it?
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