This spring, two gay high school seniors from Missouri were upset to find that their perfectly G-rated, good-spirited senior quotes were removed from the school yearbook without their knowledge.
Joey Slivinski’s quote should have read “Of course I dress well. I didn’t spend all that time in the closet for nothing.” Thomas Swartz’s quote was “If Harry Potter taught us anything, it’s that nobody deserves to live in the closet.” But both students had blank spaces printed where their quotes should have been.
Kearney High School officials released a statement cited by KCTV 5 and The Washington Post, explaining that quotes that “could potentially offend another student or groups of students” were not published in the yearbook.
“It is the school’s practice to err on the side of caution. Doing so in this case had the unintentional consequence of offending the very students the practice was designed to protect,” the statement, which was attributed to Kearney High School Principal Dave Schwarzenbach and Kearney School District Superintendent Bill Nicely, read. “We sincerely apologize to those students.”
Meanwhile, in a lengthy Facebook post, Slivinski summed up his reaction to finding out his quote had been removed. “I put a very innocent quote as my senior quote and they took it away from me with absolutely no warning or option to change it,” he wrote Aug. 8. “Our schools are supposed to be a place that you can express being who you are. Today I realized Kearney isn’t ready for me being me.”
To their credit, the school has apologized profusely. They said they messed up by not reaching out to the students before removing their quotes, and if they had, they would have better understood the situation and kept the quotes.
“As a result of a breakdown in communication we did not reach out to the students before publication,” Kearney School District Superintendent Bill Nicely wrote. “Had we done so, the quotes would have been permitted just as a similar quote was permitted in last year’s publication.”
He then added, “I will be the first to tell you we feel terrible about it. It was never the intention of the school district to offend or hurt anyone, and we are deeply sorry for any pain or frustration that resulted due to this error.”
Ugh, just a crappy situation all around. I hope these two young men know that their experiences and expressions are important, and that an ignorant school decision doesn’t make them any less valid.
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