Month: August 2017

autismserenity:

stimmyabby:

I sometimes feel like my abuse isn’t Official Real Abuse

everyone else’s abuse is Real Abuse, but mine isn’t

and calling it “abuse” is unfair to people who have been through Real Abuse

so if you sometimes feel that way too

here I am, a person with Real Abuse

saying your abuse is Official Real Abuse

and you are allowed to call it “abuse”

because it is

you are very brave

I reblogged this by itself because it’s Very Fucking True

but just now I realized that this is also why people tend to think they’re not bi enough, not trans enough, not autistic enough, not Black enough, not depressed enough, etc. Because people are abused for being those things, and automatically feel like their experience is not bad enough to count.

sbroxman-autisticquestions:

You wanna know something that really irks me?

That when ableists see an autistic person saying something on Tumblr, they immediately assume they must be “high functioning” and therefore cannot have a valid opinion on stuff about autism

Here’s a newsflash. The ones you describe as “low functioning”? Many of them can type! Many of them can communicate even if they can’t physically speak. Never just make assumptions immediately just because the person can’t physically speak, because that’s ableist as heck

gadreelsam:

gadreelsam:

gadreelsam:

UPDATE (!!!!): i had an amazing help, being able to pay the light and internet bills, and buy one box of the meds for my mom. now, i have R$ 8,29. i need to pay my rent next 16th august and all i have is R$ 8,29. plus that the med i bought for my mom today is weekly, so, is crazy. please, donate to my paypal if you can help me. my rent costs R$700,00.

UPDATE 2 (!!!!): 

Had help of exactly R$278,01 (85,66€ – PayPal tax 6,69€), which means that I still need R$422,00. Thank you sweetheart, for the donation. 💝
need to buy that weekly med for my mom, in THIS LINK you can check the price :/

taisxabranches@gmail.com – “payment for products” on paypal. please, if you can spare anything will matter. thanks for all the help ‘til here. ❤

IMPORTANT (!!!): HERE and HERE you can check prescriptions, reports and etc. all th proof that we need help. thankk you all too much. ❤

EDITING(!!!): Plus now, my dear friend who helps me every month with my rent will not be able to help me for the next two months (august/september). So, plus everything discribed above, I need R$1400,00 for the next two months. Is a lot for my nerves. I don’t know how I am not in a hospital bed drooling looking at the walls. Please, someone help us. (!!!!!!!!!!!)

guys please, my mom only have med ‘til tomorrow. I need help, please. Anything will matter ’-’ please.

My mom is still without her med and i didn’t had any donation yet. If you can help, please, donate to my PayPal. Thank you all for everything. ❤️

@quill-of-thoth – There’s actually no drain to handle rain runoff back there at all, as handy as it might be sometimes. But, I’m definitely glad it’s just rainwater and not also backed-up kitchen drains now👍 That metal cover the water was coming up from is just an inspection cover for the house drains. The pavement slopes away from it, especially into that one corner.

Worst case, now I know you can take the lid off and sweep water into the hole if necessary! Never actually had any reason to open it before the water company guy came and had to poke around in there. The standing rain should eventually soak into the ground through the pavement cracks, though.

The patio setup in general seems like just another in the collection of DIY Don’ts from some previous owner. Planning for drainage? Using one of those fancy levels? Who has time for such nonsense?! 🙄

A couple of bad shots with some of the bubbles I mentioned earlier. Not foam, but more like somebody took a bubble wand and blew bubbles onto the surface.

It’s coming down too hard now for there to be as many at a time as earlier, plus that detergent is no doubt getting diluted more all the time. There were way more at a time earlier today, and it was kind of interesting to watch.