discoursers: aces dont belong in the lgbt community go make ur own
ace ppl: *make their own community*
discoursers:
Really bc the only response I’ve seen to “make your own community” is “that’s literally all we want you to do” but ok lol
Idk man,going thru tags like “ace positivity” ,“ace pride” or
ace ppl’s photos on tumblr and reblogging the posts with nasty comments, making and reblogging “ace donald trump/ronald raegan/margaret thatchers/or X horrible person” moodboards(thus equating aces with homophobes/facists)and making and reblogging those “cringey asexual” posts(thereby implying that there is something inherently “cringey” with being ace)really dosent scream “Thats
literally all we want you to do “ to me lmfao.
If the only problem with u is aces “invading” the LGBT+ community then dont demonize asexuality itself and stop erasing and making fun of our struggles which is exactly what 85% of ur blog is about lol
The funny thing is hetmarki says this, but was literally 1 of 4 exclusionists who hopped on a non-discourse post, that was obviously not discourse, by a writer talking about ace headcanons and their own ace characters that got mistagged, and harassed them to the point where the blog’s owner had a relapse.
Tw for talk of genitalia and sex, harassment, relapse mention, mockery, and desexualization of aroace people
So I’m sorry but I don’t exactly believe hetmarki’s “nobody does this, we want you to make your own community”.
They don’t want aces and aros to make their own community for support and validation. They want aces and aros to make a social community that doesn’t acknowledge any kind of systemic marginalization or societal difficulty, because a community based on support acknowledges systemic marginalization exists and therefore begs the question of why it has to be separate from the larger community of marginalized orientations.
They don’t want aces and aros to make a community that looks anything like the larger community (a big reason they whine about meme thievery). They want aces and aros to make a community that reflects their biases about us and only exists for the flag colors and cake jokes they think are all we bother to identify as ace for. They want us to make a community approved by them, and therefore are making efforts to stamp out anything else.
They say “make a community of your own” but they mean “acknowledge that you experience no marginalization and just form a social club like straight people do.” And that’s why they feel justified in shitting all over ace and aro spaces, because those spaces don’t look the way they think they should and – and why they consider ace positivity to be discourse by default, because anything that takes the position of aces and aros being in any way marginalized is, by default, a wrench in their entire position, even when it’s happening away from them, so they show up to stamp it out and tell us to do it over and get it right and admit that we don’t even need our own community at all.
Uh…yeah this was filmed in Millville, NJ. My brother showed me this on his facebook and I couldn’t believe the pollen was that bad till I saw that. Hell it got featured on 6abc’s facebook too. Would also explain why my allergies have been horrid every single damn time I’ve gone to my brother’s house to visit this year.
“What incels want is extremely limited and specific: they want unattractive, uncouth, and unpleasant misogynists to be able to have sex on demand with young, beautiful women. They believe that this is a natural right. It is men, not women, who have shaped the contours of the incel predicament. It is male power, not female power, that has chained all of human society to the idea that women are decorative sexual objects, and that male worth is measured by how good-looking a woman they acquire.”
I know everybodys talking about the article but its this tweet itself that makes me lose my shit
tinder link in bio.
JGKJDFHGJDF TINDER LINK IN BIO?
moodest
me: “yo every time you put a hand down my pants my clit feels like a terrified wwi regiment getting buzzed by the red baron”
you: “when will this stigma end”
Gloves, you use gloves, I know this is hard to believe but this is a common situation especially for sex workers, you just put on gloves, I know it’s fun and cool to make fun of femininity (no way that’s rooted in misogyny).
You get gloves, which you should be using with casual partners and partners with skin sensitivity anyway, and you stuff the fingers with cotton fluff.
But yeah, no, I get it, it’s more socially acceptable to hate femininity, and the people who perform it (hint: many trans women have to perform femininity to stay safe).
God, I mean, I say use gloves but you don’t even HAVE TO, you can in fact learn to stimulate a vagina with long nails without protective covers, it just takes some practice but WHATEVER, let’s all just make up random sex myths, that’s never backfired. /sarcasm
For fucks sake, the image literally says “libfem.” If this post chain isn’t 85% radfems, swerfs and terfs in particular, I’ll eat my own fucking ass.
Like, sorry to start fucking screaming, but g o d, I have seen this post so much and it makes me want to claw off my fucking face.
Seriously the first time I saw people laughing over this I was confused because gloves+cotton is a thing that solves the problem easily like what’s the big problem. Honestly stuff like this is why there needs to be comprehensive sex-ed.
in 10 days ireland is having a referendum to hopefully repeal the 8th amendment, which equates the life of a foetus to that of an adult
abortion is currently 100% illegal in ireland with a penelty of up to 14yrs (rape is 7yrs, if even that) and up to 10 people travel to england to access abortion every single day
if you’re irish, remember go to vote Yes on May 25th. if you’re not irish but have irish friends, remind them to go vote Yes
(rb if ya can)
Boosting &reblogging fight for the right to choose.
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