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Since I keep getting anons WRT multisexuals being able to use the terms butch + femme and positivity posts I’ve made for multisexuals who use these terms, I want to address that:

• I’ve already answered a question about whether I think multisexuals are allowed to use these terms that included sources
• Namely among them being this source which goes over the history of the terms butch + femme and the fact that multisexuals have been using them since they were created

Now here’s the deal I’ll make with anyone who comes to this blog and takes issue with my posts: if you can refute these sources and provide me with actual evidence showing that the information is all bullshit and that multisexuals without a doubt have zero rights to use these words? I will be absolutely be happy to hear you out, read whatever sources you provide, reconsider my position on this issue, and apologize if I was wrong.

However anyone who comes into my ask box to complain without any legitimate argument + sources that show that multisexuals have no right to use these words (which “lesbophobe go die” does not count as, jsyk) is getting instantly blocked and I’ll be adding 10 positivity posts for butch/femme multisexuals to my queue just for you.

Deal? Deal. 🤝

This offer is still on the table, my pals.

Let me just casually bring this back around for y’all since I get a flood of asks ‘correcting’ me about who is/isn’t allowed to use the terms butch and femme literally every time I make a positivity post about the terms (none of which, btw, have had countersources – still waiting on those).

Also a reminder to y’all to read my byf/faq before you send in asks. This post was linked there, literally under a header that says “call me out”. I mean? 🤷

This is still so weird. Less than ten years ago, my gf and I called ourselves a butch/femme couple. We were both bi and both were open about it and NO ONE SAID SQUAT.

This thing is new.