thatoddgurl:

hustleinatrap:

Imagine hating women so much.

They deserve more. They deserved a supportive system of friends and family that will help them not feel alone in the world with a child. They deserve a healthcare system where they don’t have between their health, the baby’s or having money to make it through the weeks. A government where they can get aid when needed and not be called leech on the system or lazy and a school system to help teen parents as well as college bounds ones as well.

The baby shower helps ^^

bramblepatch:

ladyshinga:

“You can be fat and healthy”

True

But as some one who is fat and also disabled/chronically ill, maybe
don’t put so much damn power into “healthy = valuable and worthy of
love”
because boy is this backfiring on some of us

Also there’s a lot of health conditions where weight gain is either a symptom or a side effect of medication. If your body erroneously decides “boy howdy time to lay in some major fat reserves b/c Winter Is Coming” trying to work or starve off the weight without figuring out how to convince your system that Winter Is Not, In Fact, Coming tends to be dangerous and counterproductive.