jumpingjacktrash:

so much of ‘woke’ tumblr acts as if kindness is a zero sum game, a limited resource that must be redistributed ‘fairly’. they act like being unkind to certain people balances the books somehow. like in order to be kind to those who’ve suffered, you have to give their suffering to someone else.

that’s not how it is, y’all. there’s enough kindness for everyone. being cruel doesn’t redistribute kindness. it only increases cruelty.

lord-kitschener:

Also why do we constantly mock and scold women for being stupid because “dumb bitches aways think they can change a man,” when women are taught from day one that it’s our moral duty to ~fix a man~ and ~stand by your man~ to clean up his messes, both literally and figuratively, and to ignore our own discomfort and second thoughts while we do it.

How can we keep telling girls that kissing the frog is how you get a prince, then turn around and act shocked that so many women end up with reptiles