Day: August 14, 2018

theroguefeminist:

mutilatedmemories:

Open relationships seem to be becoming more popular which is cool, but this should be kept in mind:

If your partner is allowed to flirt and mess around with other people, and you’re not, you’re not in an open relationship. You’re being strung along, manipulated, and emotionally abused by someone who wants to do what they want on their terms, and control you at the same time.

Get out.

This happened to a friend of mine. The second she slept with someone else her boyfriend flew into a rage and my friend blamed herself. He also had a girlfriend who didn’t even know about her so…he was straight up cheating on his girlfriend and forbidding my friend he was seeing from seeing anyone else and called this an “open relationship.” My friend actually bought this as legitimate polyamory. Exploiting the language of polyamory can allow abusers to gaslight you to prevent you from even seeing infidelity and abuse for what it is.

markv5-translated:

markv5:

Сигнус Регулус Пауэрс — гордый обладатель самого длинного хвоста (44,6 сантиметра!) согласно книге рекордов Гиннесса. Благодаря своей известности, Сигнус заработал уже несколько тысяч долларов для мичиганского приюта Ferndale cat shelter, чьим руководителем является его хозяин.

Сигнус Регулус Пауэрс — гордый обладатель самого длинного хвоста (44,6 сантиметра!) согласно книге рекордов Гиннесса. Благодаря своей известности, Сигнус заработал уже несколько тысяч долларов для мичиганского приюта Ferndale cat shelter, чьим руководителем является его хозяин.

Signus Regulus Powers is the proud owner of the longest tail (44.6 centimeters!) According to the Guinness Book of Records. Thanks to his fame, Signus earned several thousand dollars for the Michigan shelter Ferndale cat shelter, whose leader is its master.