I probably should say that most of the time it’s safer to go up a shoe size if you’re in doubt.
Just remembering that time I was in a friend’s wedding, and she decided we should go for these matching dyed pumps. As happens with wedding parties.
That maybe wouldn’t have been so bad if the shop had my size in stock when we went in to try them on. But, of course the closest pair was a little tight.
“Sure, let’s go ahead and order in the size up, I’m sure that will be fine.”
Spoiler: It wasn’t fine. And it was too late by the time they came to try something else. I would have been better off with the ones I tried on.
The Sasquatch-sized pair they ordered in seemed to be a different brand, with different sizing. So I got stuck in heels that felt at least 2 sizes too big. They didn’t really want to stay on, it was that great a fit.
So, I tried insoles and stuffed the toes with paper. Which put a lot of my weight onto the toes crumpling themselves down against the toe paper, instead of on the balls of the feet. Besides the blisters.
(And of course I forgot to pack along comfier shoes for the reception. It was too cold to just go without, though I seriously considered it anyway. So it was pretty much all day stuck in those horrible shoes.)
I’m not sure if any toes actually ended up broken, or “just” dislocated. (Thank you lousy collagen. š©) There was a lot of bruising, and walking was not easy for a couple of weeks afterwards.
Now I would just say, “Sorry, I’m just going to have to wear non-matching shoes. These are not working at all.” Even if I didn’t have diabetic foot issues to keep in mind.
That was over 15 years ago, though, and I felt like I needed to good sport my way through in horrible shoes.
Also a cautionary tale, I suppose. Please don’t do that. š±






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