Jean-Michel Basquiat photographed by Lee Jaffe.
Day: December 18, 2017
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I live in the USA and shock collars have always bothered me. I see them fairly often on dogs in Petco. I had to dogsit a family pet and was handed the remote to his shock collar to, in their words, keep him calm. He was a puppy and the reason he had it was because “he jumps and pulls on the leash”. Puppies… do that??
Where shock collars are freely available there seems to be this persistent belief that if you can just be tough/fierce/scary/strong/alpha enough then the animal will âsubmitâ and have perfect behavior. This isnât the case, and itâs super confusing for an animal to be surrounded by strong âDONT DO THATâ messages without any positive âDo Thisâ messages, it can only guess at what you want.
Sometimes they stop trying and they exhibit learned helplessness, where they essentially do nothing because they donât understand how to void the punishment. In a human this might look like depression, but people might mistake this behavior as being âa good/obedient dogâ instead. This is because the animal stopped showing the behaviour the human didnât like, but it is not a good state for the dog to be in.
Iâd also like to point out how dogs who stop showing signs of distress or aggression arenât safe dogs for anyone around them â human or animal â if anyone who reads this and is thinking it doesnât sound so bad to have a âchillâ dog all the time. Dogs with learned helplessness almost always go from 0 to 60 in an instant because they skip all other warnings (moving away, stiffened posture, growling, air snapping, all other âI am not okay so stop what youâre doing and leave me alone or I will escalate things until you doâ types of communication). Theyâre the dogs who are âfineâ one moment and the next someone is on the floor with a bleeding dog bite.
Which also happens to mean theyâre at increased risk of having to be put down, not to mention injuring, disfiguring, or even killing someone or something.
Once you get to the point where a dog has learned helplessness, thereâs really very little you can do and theyâre extremely hard to work with as a behaviourist. Because they donât give off any signs of what theyâre feeling until itâs too late, thereâs a mountain of trial and error you have to go through before you can actually start working to help the dog. And every trial carries the risk of the dog reacting, which puts the people around in danger, can end the session early because the dog is in no mental space to continue, and can erode any trust the trainer has built with the dog.
(You also have to convince the owner not to do X and Y and have the owner be able to convince anyone who comes into contact with the dog not to do X and Y, which can be super difficult because I swear some people just want to be bit. I have lost count of the number of times people and clients have been told not to do X to their dog, only for them to do it in front of me, or admit to doing it at home, or letting family and friends do X, and then they wonder why all the training isnât helping.)
Some dogs do respond well with specialized training and work, but others are too traumatized. The most that can be done for them is setting them up with a safe and calm space in a home with people who wonât push them, but in some cases the dog is so traumatized and so unsafe that euthanasia is the only humane option.
I canât speak to things on the vet side of things, but dogs with learned helplessness are some of the scariest dogs to be around. They hide what theyâre feeling for fear of punishment so you have no clue if the dog is fine and relaxed or if itâs getting close to 60. Iâd rather deal with a dog that growls and muzzle-punches than one who seems perfectly fine no matter what, since at least with the former you have behaviour to react to and know where you stand.
So you may have a âchillâ dog for the moment, but the next moment may be very different.
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can I ask why you think bi women can reclaim dyke? you’d have to be the only lesbian I know who has that opinion
1. bi women do get called dyke by people who are fully aware theyâre bi and not lesbians. cishets donât really distinguish between women who affirm attraction to other women nearly as much as people on this site would lead you to believe
2. âlesbianâ history has always included women we would now identify as bisexual. i have no problem with lesbian and bisexual becoming distinct identity labels, but that doesnât mean we can deny bi women their own history
3. bi women are not my oppressors. they are in fact the only political group that shares my experience of dealing with both homophobia and misogyny; our differences in experience are not differences in possession of power. at the end of the day, they donât have the power to enact social harm against me, and even if points 1 and 2 werenât true, their reclamation of dyke really wouldnât be the end of the world. iâm much more concerned with, say, ending corrective rape and addressing bi womenâs astronomical rates of ipv than with nitpicking whoâs allowed to use a slur that cishets throw at both of us anyway.
Thereâs so many lesbians who think that too lol⌠especially in real life where the opinion tends to be more âwho cares, why not?â than anything else.
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Orange neocaridina davidii with petrified wood & various plants in my 5gal aquarium.
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