unpopular problematic opinion but

fullyarticulatedgoldskeleton:

edwad:

you shouldn’t have to reveal some deeply personal thing about yourself, especially if it somehow affects your safety, just so that people will listen to you and stop treating you like shit

People who are treating you like shit don’t have your best interests at heart and will probably use the personal thing as extra ammo anyway. Even if they claim they’re acting from a place of morals

People with good morals would not be bullying you in the first place.

alienriot:

grumpyoldnurse:

fatale-distraction:

fatale-distraction:

constantine-spiritworker:

its-thedinosaurman:

staying-happily-high:

butterscotchwm:

notnights:

soloontherocks:

my favorite side effect warning is for antidepressants

pros: you won’t want to kill yourself

cons: you might want to kill yourself

Back when I was in a psychiatric hospital, and was offered antidepressants, my mother had declined them due to that apparent side effect. So the staff actually explained about this effect antidepressants have, that give reason to that warning.
When first taking antidepressants they raise up your energy first. So that you have the energy to do the tasks you might have avoided doing due to your depression.
Because of this those who were already suicidal, now have the energy to go do so. Which is the ones this warning is given for.
It’s not that a side effect of antidepressants magically makes you want to kill yourself, it’s the energy it gives those who were already struggling with suicidal issues, to actually attempt the act.

Very informative…

Wow. I’m so glad you explained that. Now I understand

My high school choir/psych teacher actually told is about this. She also said if you have a suicidal friend who starts seeming like they might be getting better because they have more energy, that’s the time to be cautious because that’s when they may still be suicidal but they’ll actually have the energy to go through with it

THIS. a thousand times THIS. I had it explained to me in my AP psychology class in high school. super fucking important.

THIS IS SO IMPORTANT and I wish my doctors had explained it to me this well when I first started taking them.

JUST GONNA REBLOG THIS AGAIN TO ADD that my younger sister in law recently started on anti-depressants among other medications in juncture with therapy to help handle an extreme case of OCD and anxiety, and I was the one who had to explain this to her. Her doctor only explained the risks, and not WHY they would actually be considered risks, which put her off of taking medication for most of her life. I explained it, and she understood, and THAT is why she is now on medication that is significantly improving her life. DOCTORS NEED TO TELL US THIS SHIT.

Best description of why ‘increased risk of suicide’ is included in the warning for anti-depressants I’ve ever read.

Signal boost this to save a life.

While this definitely needs to be spread, this isn’t always the reason for them including that as a side effect. Some antidepressants do make people more suicidal, not because it’s making them better, but because it’s making them worse.

If you start to feel suicidal when taking a new med, tell your provider *immediately*.

When I was put on Prozac my suicidal ideations became way more intense and I ended up trying to kill myself. Turns out my body doesn’t process SSRIs well and I was switched to lamictal. I am doing so much better now.

I’m not saying this to deter anyone from getting help or starting a new medication, but feeling more suicidal isn’t necessarily an indicator that a medication is working.

I had some similar experiences, including with Prozac. Which got totally dismissed at the time (along with other side effects) as irrational resistance to taking medications at all. It was very dangerous, and I know I am not the only one to encounter this.

One thing that SSRIs and some other medications can do? Lower seizure threshold. Where temporal lobe seizures in particular can be interpreted as worsening psych symptoms, unrelated to the meds and requiring more which may make the situation worse.

(Very much including the possibility of agitation/sudden strong anxiety attacks and suicidal thoughts, yes.)

More about this, that I wrote years ago: Autism, medication, and seizure risk.

With our tendency toward unusual medication reactions and high prevalence of epilepsy, this may be a much more common issue for autistic people. Even if you’re not aware of having had seizures before. (I did, but they were never recognized as such.) Lowering the threshold may be enough to cause problems there.

It’s a possibility to keep in mind for anyone who is suddenly having unusual experiences while taking medication(s), and too rarely considered as an explanation.

Important for people to have plenty of info going in. And to consider that anything out of the ordinary that starts happening on a medication is most likely related.

Lavatory and Liberty: The Secret History of the Bathroom Break

random-thought-depository:

This is a post about the right to use the bathroom when at work, but there’s a tangential discussion about the history of labor laws in it that was very interesting to me:

“Belated Feudalism,” a study by UCLA political scientist Karen Orren, suggests a surprising, and shocking, answer. According to Orren, long after the Bill of Rights was ratified and slavery abolished – well into the 20th century, in fact – the American workplace remained a feudal institution. Not metaphorically, but legally. Workers were governed by statutes originating in the common law of medieval England, with precedents extending as far back as the year 500. Like their counterparts in feudal Britain, judges exclusively administered these statutes, treating workers as the literal property of their employers. Not until 1937, when the Supreme Court upheld the Wagner Act, giving workers the right to organize unions, did the judiciary relinquish political control over the workplace to Congress.

Prior to the ’30s, Orren shows, American judges regularly applied the “law of master and servant” to quell the worker’s independent will. According to one jurist, that law recognized only “the superiority and power” of the master, and the “duty, subjection, and, as it were, allegiance” of the worker. Medieval vagrancy statutes forced able-bodied males into the workplace, while ancient principles of “entire” contract kept them there. A worker hired for a period of time – often five to 10 years and beyond – was legally not entitled to any of his earnings unless and until he completed the entire term of his contract. When rules of vagrancy and entirety failed, judges turned to other precedents, some dating from the time of Richard II, requiring workers seeking employment to obtain a “testimonial letter” from their previous employer. Because employers were under no legal obligation to provide such letters, judges could effectively stop workers from ever trying to move on.

As soon as workers entered the workplace, they became the property of their employers. Judges enforced the 13th-century rule of “quicquid acquietur servo acquietur domino” (whatever is acquired by the servant is acquired by the master), mandating that employees give to their employers whatever they may have earned off the job – as if the employee, and not his labor, belonged to the employer. If an outside party injured an employee so that he couldn’t perform his duties, the employer could sue that party for damages, “as if the injury had been to his chattel or machines or buildings.” But if the outside party injured the employer so that he could not provide employment, the employee could not likewise sue. Why? Because, claimed one jurist, the “inferior hath no kind of property in the company, care, or assistance of the superior, as the superior is held to have in those of the inferior.”

“Belated Feudalism” set off multiple explosions when it appeared in 1991, inflicting serious damage on the received wisdom of Harvard political scientist Louis Hartz. In his 1955 classic “The Liberal Tradition in America,” still taught on many college campuses, Hartz argued that the United States was born free: Americans never knew feudalism; their country – with its Horatio Alger ethos of individual mobility, private property, free labor, and the sacred rights of contract – was modern and liberal from the start. For decades, liberals embraced Hartz’s argument as an explanation for why there was no – and could never be any – radicalism in the United States. Leftists, for their part, also accepted his account, pointing to the labor movement’s failure to create socialism as evidence of liberalism’s hegemony.

But as Orren shows, American liberalism has never been the easy inheritance that Hartz and his complacent defenders assume. And the American labor movement may have achieved something far more difficult and profound than its leftist critics realize. Trade unions, Orren argues, made America liberal, laying slow but steady siege to an impregnable feudal fortress, prying open this “state within a state” to collective bargaining and congressional review. By pioneering tactics later used by the civil rights movement – sit-ins, strikes, and civil disobedience – labor unions invented the modern idea of collective action, turning every sphere of society into a legitimate arena of democratic politics. It’s no accident that when the factory walls came tumbling down, other old regimes – of race, gender, and sexual orientation – began to topple in their wake.”

This made me think of coverture laws and how new the legal consensus that marital rape is a thing is. We usually think of those things in terms of sexism, and I don’t exactly think that’s wrong – but that and the thing Robin is talking about feels like different parts of the same elephant to me. I know I reference that essay a lot, but what bubbles up in my mind when I think about this is something @balioc said in their essay on The Rule of the Clan: “Individual liberty – and even, really, individual identity – are not naturally-occurring phenomena.”

My mind here turns to David Graeber’s idea of “human economies”; economies “where the primary focus of economic life is on reconfiguring relations between people, rather than the allocation of commodities.” “The servant belongs to the master” fits with that framework: an employment contract isn’t a transaction of money for labor, it’s the creation of a hierarchical relationship. I’ve kind of brushed against this before, but the housewife role really strikes me as a late survival of the human economy.

I guess the big idea I’m getting out of this is “Tiamat died slowly, and her bones are close to the surface” (in an analogy where the feudal/human socioeconomic system is Tiamat and liberalism is Marduk).

Lavatory and Liberty: The Secret History of the Bathroom Break

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veryfemmeandantifascist:

bpdpaki:

cryptfly:

ms-nuit-noir:

hermionematilda:

thehappyhooker:

femme-with-cherries:

tomfordvelvetorchid:

Bitch?what the fuc

Where do I get that?

If someone finds out please share!

it’s called the Vamp Stamp https://www.instagram.com/the_vampstamp/

👁👁 😵 😶 😓

I just signed up for the newsletter so I know when it goes on sale.

From their facebook

“Did you know that The Vamp Stamp was created by the cofounder of beautyblender? It was also created out of a special need: our celebrity Makeup Artist founder, Veronica, lost the use of her hands due to a benign cervical spinal cord tumor and could no longer do makeup in the traditional way. This solution is made with love and strength for anyone who needs a little extra support accomplishing complicated makeup looks, for ANY
reason. Don’t let anyone – or anything – take your Vamp away.”

So it was created as a kind of accessibility device. I am so happy.

@halakha !!

BITCH!!!!

ash-soka:

super-star-destroyer:

skaletal:

self-critical-automaton:

critical-perspective:

terminallydepraved:

charlesoberonn:

nexya:

I love how humans have literally not changed throughout history like the graffiti from Pompeii has people from hundreds of years ago writing stuff like “Marcus is gay” “I fucked a girl here” “Julius your mum wishes she was with me” and leonardo da vinci’s assistants drew dicks in their notebooks just for the banter and mozart created a piece called “kiss my ass” so when people wish for ‘today’s generation’ to be like ‘how people used to’ then we’re already there buddy we’ve always been

The Hagia Sophia has inscriptions that were considered sacred for centuries until they were deciphered in the 70s to be Nordic runes saying “Halfdan wrote this”

my old english prof told us that theres a cave in Scandinavia where a viking gratified some runes like 14 feet up on the wall and when they finally reached it all it translated into was “this is very high”

Ancient Shitposting

Now on the History Channel

‘People have literally just always been people’ is genuinely my favorite fact about the world

“Times are bad. Children no longer obey their parents, and everyone is writing a book.” – Marcus Tullius Cicero, 106 BC – 43 BC

Common dog names have literally not changed in 3,000 years.

so not nearly as old but, this is a 12th century stave church in lom, norway (one of less than 40 left in the world)

it’s hard to see, but in the top left corner of this photo where the light comes in from the window, there’s a runic inscription

these photos show it more clearly, it’s easier to see in person. so of course one of the people i was travelling with asked what it said, and we were told it basically translates to:

“on this day, I climbed to this point, in the corner of the church”

people really have always been people