
Freeze and thaw
Addison, Vermont
Today my boyfriend accidentally broke the ear off of his dog statue, which he’s had for twelve years, and discovered another smaller dog inside… I have so many questions.
FREE HIM
writing conclusions in papers is like the stupidest thing ever though like what’s the point of dedicating an entire paragraph to “so yeah i know you just read my paper but this is a summarization of what you read in case you need to be reminded about what you just read” like why can’t the paper just end
I keep seeing this post and similar ones, and if y’all’s teachers and professors have left you with the idea that a conclusion is a summary, they have failed you in a big way.
Your conclusion is your “so what’s the fucking point” section. You’ve given you’re reader a lot of info and now they need to know why they care. Depending on the type of paper you should be giving a plan of action, explaining how this knowledge changes our understanding of the topic, link your paper to other disciplines, suggest further areas of study, etc.
One of the best pieces of writing advice I’ve ever received is that if you can’t envision yourself dropping the mic and strutting off stage at the end of your conclusion then it’s probably not strong enough.
“So whats the fucking point” is more helpful than all 6 years I’ve probably been writing papers

Mask. #gasmask #mustardgas #war #chemicalwarfare #biologicalwarfare #massmurder #protection (at Edinburgh, United Kingdom)
The idea that to be beautiful means to be good and to be disfigured means to be evil is not new. It’s a really tired, unoriginal trend in the movie industry, and only perpetuates damaging beliefs about individuals with facial differences.
I know this is going to be dismissed as some fucking snowflake nonsense but I work in a paediatric burns unit and the effects of this trope are gut wrenching and so, so damaging.
Hollywood’s Disfigured Villain Trope Does Major Harm to Disabled People
TeenVogue still kicking ass and taking names.
ALSO: The Bugis people of Indonesia have five genders, one of which is neither male nor female.
http://www.insideindonesia.org/sulawesis-fifth-gender-2
You’ll find examples of nonbinary and GNC people being accepted all over the ancient and non-western world. It’s almost like sex and gender are actually spectrums and heteropatriarchy isn’t normal.
They were not, and are not, nonbinary. If you’re going to put violent and Colonial language on precolonial people’s and their identities, do it off of my dash.
Using Western terminology to understand other cultures’ gender variance might only result in perpetuating that harm and erasure.
I wouldn’t necessarily even call it “gender variance”, within a gender system where it’s…just how some people are. As a part of that gender system.
Varying from commonly imposed Western systems and allowable genders, sure. That’s not the same thing, though.
Just reminded with those replacement headphones coming in very handy again, I have a relatively new contender here for the most ridiculous seizure trigger ever:
The noise and vibration from upstairs’ washing machine! 🙃
It is a relatively new one, and as I commented before when that blocked drain was flooding our patio, they run it at least once a day. Usually more, and at unpredictable times. Even though they do have a kid and a dog up there, I’ve had to wonder if they’re also taking in laundry or something. It’s running that often.
At first I assumed it was just the sound, but then I had it blocked out pretty well one night and still started getting muscles twitching and jumping in rhythm with the vibrations. And it kinda went from there. That effect was freaky enough with music my nervous system hated before, but geez that was a weird experience. Happened more than once since, too, with no idea of what might have been different those times.
(One day after I got up, I managed to get a fun combo of seizurey shit from that, and one of the pain meltdowns exacerbated by having to use the headphones when I was already that overloaded. Great fun.)
If I’m on this side of the house (including the heated rooms where I spend at least 90% of the time) when it’s running, usually headphones with the right music going at a sufficient volume to drown it out will head off the worst of it. But, I suspect it’s fucking me up and sapping more energy I don’t have to spare on a regular basis now Definitely staying headachy and spacy a lot more again.
It’s particularly frustrating when there’s basically nothing to be done about something like that. I mean, at least it’s not like when we had that horrible abusive asshole up there whose loud electronic crap kept scrambling my nervous system before–and I knew good and well that if anyone said a word, he’d up the ante on purpose. Just that kind of jerk.
But, you can’t really just say, “Hello, neighbors who don’t seem to particularly like us anyway. Possibly because we come across as weird. You know that new washing machine you bought a while back? Please stop using it, because it’s giving me/my spouse seizures.” 🤔 😩
At least it’s more manageable than the awful music situation so far, and I haven’t been waking up with a chewed-up inside of the mouth or anything so far. But, that’s still been a further quality of life hit that I could do without.
Also, I have pretty much exclusively seemed to have noticeable problems with this shit when something else has been lowering my seizure threshold enough to cause problems. (Which helped it get missed and misinterpreted over the years, yeah.) Medications, celiac deficiencies, whatever rather serious factors. I’m kind of concerned now about what else might be going on to make me more susceptible, but it probably ain’t good.
short version tho: I agree with the criticism that liberal ideas of rights/utility/etc were defined by rich white straight men, and that this is Problematic.
(I’d say Kant and Bentham in particular come at moral philosophy from an autistic standpoint, but clearly not one that’s grounded in a strong anti-ableist politics, and in fact they are both a very good example of how standpoint affects philosophical conclusions even if you ignore any special knowledge people get about oppression. anyway. tangent.)
I suspect if you asked the average Enlightenment-era woman, the right to not be raped would make the fundamental rights list and the right to privacy would not. and I think it is clearly true that e.g. the right to privacy has been used to protect men who hit or rape their wives, because that’s private business and the state shouldn’t interfere with it
however, I think that going “actually, no, this applies to everyone” is very powerful. there’s a reason Bentham thought sodomy should be legal. the right to privacy has also been used to overturn anti-sodomy laws, protect the medical privacy of trans and disabled people, and (most famously) to protect women’s right to contraception and abortion. even if the original theorizers of the right to privacy were thinking more about how the government should let them rape their wives, the effects of the right to privacy are clearly liberatory
in particular, free speech and the right to vote and so on are vitally important because they allow oppressed groups to speak out. liberalism has a self-correction mechanism. “being sexually harassed at work makes it hard to get your job done” was a fact we used to not know and now we know it, and I think this is actually 100% caused by liberalism working the way it should
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